In a recent blog, I wrote about “Tolerance.” Today it’s about “Acceptance.”
When I think about acceptance, there is a sense of tolerance also that accompanies my thoughts as well. However, I’d ask you to think about acceptance from a holistic point of view that you have chosen to accept in most cases these days.
Today, you and I can’t go anywhere without seeing someone using canes or walkers to get around.
However, have you thought about or often wondered are they accepting the fact that they need these devices?
Three years ago, when my total hip replacement on my left hip, I didn’t need so much a walker; however, I required a cane to get mobilized and moving to place weight on my hip.
This was an acceptance that in life we are all getting older, and it takes time to recover.
Furthermore, many these days have limiting beliefs.
We are all individuals who may accept a food order as being wrong, while others may send it back into the kitchen or ask the server to fix it.
This past weekend, I had the opportunity to watch my nephew and his mother in need of a spoon for their soup. After five minutes in a very nice restaurant and seeing no spoons arrive at the table I got up and found a server and asked for them.
It appeared to me they were satisfied or accepted waiting as their food began to cool down. There are some things that I wasn’t willing to accept, especially watching them wonder if they were going to get service.
In addition, there are various things we tend to accept today that can cause us sometimes emotional and mental sabotage because we are not willing to let things go.
Each of us has our own stories tied to acceptance and why we accept or reject specific things in life.
Some things as small and trivial such as the thickness or thinness of the first slice of deli meat when you go to your favorite grocery store.
I even found out some would rather have thick bacon than regular-cut bacon. However, they accept it when in public.
We also hear about people in bad relationships who choose to accept it because of their children, or because of other various reasons.
I think it’s interesting how some people accepted what happened on January 6, 2021, (The Insurrection at the White House) and yet today have not fully realized the impact on this country.
Because I believe that I understand the Constitution of the United States, I accept as a citizen, and I’m grateful for the privileges that I have as an American.
I’ve taken oaths and was sworn in to accept the Constitution of the United States both as a Soldier and a Department of Defense Civilian.
However, sometimes “We the People” does not apply to all.
What does the phrase “We The People” mean? – US Constitution – LAWS.com
I’m also aware that before 1786 when the Constitution of the United States was established, other states had their constitutions.
7.3 Debating Democracy – U.S. History | OpenStax
Early voting has already started. As you and I prepare to vote, we must accept the outcome of the results on November 5, 2024, as who will run this country for the next four years.
Today, I challenge you to vote, listen to your inner voice and understand how much you can accept regardless of the outcome.
“Happiness can only exist in acceptance.” ~ George Orwell
This is a very thought-provoking blog. I have recently encountered several life changing situations that are necessary for me to accept. Some come with the thought, “This is what Family does.” Other situations come with the thought that “It is what it is because this is out of my control.” Stressing over it will only negatively affect me while not changing the situation. As for voting, I have a choice. I will do my part to affect change and not just adapt the Que Sera Sera attitude.
Ms. Hattie,
Thank you for your input today, which is an honor. My prayer is that all those recent life-changing situations have helped strengthen you. I’m aware of “This is what Family does.” This is why I’m love the serenity prayer.
McKinley
You leave me much to think about. Perhaps I misunderstood the mindset of Orwell, “Happiness can only exist in acceptance.” Spending less time worrying about the “what ifs?” gives me the courage to experience life as it is and move on.
Dr. Fox,
Greetings, it’s gratefulness that makes us happy.
Denzel Washington has said “Thank you for Grace, Mercy, Understanding, Wisdom, Parents, Love, Kindness, Humility, Peace, Prosperity. Say thank you in advance for what is already yours.”
McKinley
Listening to your inner voice is about connecting with your intuition and wisdom. That quiet, often subtle guidance we all have can steer decisions, inspire creativity, or bring clarity in moments of doubt.
In my case, my artwork and storytelling are powerful ways to engage with that inner voice. My creativity guides me to create new art in this way.
However, my inner voice also distinguishes between what I like and what I should do, and at times, that has been a hard battle.
Caroline,
I totally agree that “Listening to your inner voice is about connecting with your intuition and wisdom.” Sometimes it’s not as easy as it sounds when we must “distinguishes between what we like and what we should do. Thank you so much for your insight this week.
McKinley
Thank you for your thoughtful insight. I agree—acceptance is often necessary for our peace of mind, especially in situations we can’t control. As we navigate life and choices, like voting, let’s also remember the importance of being tolerant of opinions that differ from our own. This allows us to grow and find common ground. Wishing you strength in your journey.
Dave,
Great words of wisdom. I accept that fact that “As we navigate life and choices, like voting, let’s also remember the importance of being tolerant of opinions that differ from our own.” I have learned to do this many times and I am always looking for ways to grow and find common ground.
McKinley
Thanks for sharing CM, for me I am often challenged with accepting the lack of team building and genuine care for individuals in my organization. It’s quite disheartening so that serenity prayer is one that I recently read to cope with my frustrations.
Terrance,
Greetings, You and I have often heard “There is no I in team.” I too must rely on saying the serenity prayer.
CM
A very good topic. I also noticed here in Colorado a large use of oxygen tanks. I try to focus a balance in diet, exercise, and sleep. It is important to see a doctor 2 a year, or as needed. Also take medication as prescribed. I am putting my ballot in the drop box today. Thanks.
Don,
Thank you for your support. Remain healthy and stay focused. Thanks for sharing your insights on health also.
CM