This past week I needed to find the right answers in solving a dilemma and had less than 24 hours to figure it out.
I’m sure many of us have experienced things in our lives where we needed the right answers to fix a problem.
Mine this week happens to be related to a computer problem.
In my humble opinion technology these days can be challenging, yet I’m amazed that there has always been someone who has already experienced that same problem.
In life, each of us must be able to look in the right places as well and find solutions to our challenges or problems.
However, finding the right place is not always easy.
I hold many certificates and degrees yet for almost six to eight hours I continued to try and figure on my own my specific computer challenges.
It was a very draining process racing against the clock.
If you know anything about the DiSC® Model or Assessment, I’m a High “C” and I need to analyze everything until it makes sense.
DISC theory is a model used to describe human behavior, based on four personality traits: Dominance (D), Influence (I), Steadiness (S), and Conscientiousness (C).
Science behind DiSC® – DiSC Profile
What is the DiSC assessment? – DiSC Profile
Today, I’m so aware of my specific behaviors and the behaviors of others as it relates to problem-solving as a Trained DiSC® consultant, I must remind myself not to overthink the problem.
However, I found myself being persistent in being able to solve my computer problems based on my ability to do the work.
It was almost as if there was a specific Yin and Yang in my life working.
If you have ever read anything about Lao Tzu the Chinese Taoist Sage who died in 531 BC, then you will know what I’m talking about.
“The way gives birth to the one, the one gives birth to the two, from the two come three, and the three create the ten thousand things. The Ten Thousand Things carry yin and embrace Yang.”
I had so many things that I had to search for and steps in solving my computer problems.
I also had a sudden reflection on the late Wayne Dyer about “Change your thoughts, change your life Living the Wisdom of the Tao.”
was a sense of trust and judgment also that I had to exercise in looking for others with the same issues that I had.
If I were to say anything, it was that I ended up betting on myself to solve the problem.
In the end, there was a sense of maturity about being able to solve my computer problems.
I’ll close with the knowledge that I learned this week as the second candle of Advent was lit, concerning the word “prepare.”
We are never really prepared for when a catastrophe hits however, we must have a plan in finding the right answers.
My catastrophe was my computer restarting on its own about every 45-60 minutes without any notification.
I ended up being able to find the right answers and, in the end, built up a specific amount of confidence and maturity to handle my internal crisis.
This week, I challenge you to find the right answers to your problems in life and build on your maturity. Take some time also and assess if you have not already done so by determining your specific behavior patterns.
“The answers are all out there, we just need to ask the right questions.” ~ Oscar Wilde
Or as Thomas J. Watson would say “The ability to ask the right question is more than half the battle of finding the right answer.”
Laozi’s (老子) wisdom on problem-solving revolves around patience, simplicity, adaptability, and aligning with nature. His philosophy encourages us to stay calm, avoid force, and trust in the natural flow of life.
Wu Wei (无为) – Non-Action or Effortless Action
Rooted in Taoism (道教), this principle teaches us to solve problems by working with the natural order rather than against it. By observing and understanding situations, we allow solutions to arise effortlessly, without forcing outcomes.
My Problem-Solving Approach
Experiences – Drawing on past experiences helps identify patterns and solutions more effectively.
Knowledge – Leveraging what I know to analyze and understand the problem.
Exploring New Concepts – Being open to innovative ideas or alternative methods to tackle challenges.
Relax and Let Nature Take Its Course – When efforts seem futile, I pause and allow time and natural progression to reveal a solution.
Your computer issue looks like system bug
Not your fault
Need to contact manufacture
Caroline,
Today, my bug returned letting me know stay calm, and trust in the natural flow of life. Interesting comments you wrote as I will take some personal time to reflect. I appreciate you and what you bring each week to my blog post.
McKinley
Hello McKinley,
I hope you are doing well and happy holidays !!!!
As you may be aware, I also study Taoism and Lao-Tzu’s philosophy. I agree your assessment with a slight slant. I often see problems as “opportunities”. Opportunities to grow, mature, and develop. Adversity is one of the Creators greatest gifts to us as it constantly tests us and helps to perfect us. It also enhances commitment, discipline, and openness of mind to explore different paths to a solution.
It is good that these problems/challenges/adversities come to us because our evolution as “humans” depends on it.
Reggie,
Happy Holiday’s as well to you.
I’m honored to receive your insights. It’s been a while since we connected. When I was both on active duty and a DoD Civilian, I embraced those words from senior leaders when they would say we don’t have any problem just opportunities or challenges. Today, I continue to learn and embrace every opportunity available to support my growth as a lifelong learner. You and Caroline Wang have taught me there are many people such as yourselves who have a better grasp of “Taoism and Lao-Tzu’s philosophy.” I inspire to learn more in 2025.
McKinley
McKinley, I hope you have fixed your computer issues. I find myself in a current situation that seems unsolvable, but the solution is out there, I just need to look inside myself for the answers. Your weekly words of wisdom are always timely and inspirating. Just was I need on this day in my life!!
Scott,
Greetings, when we get sick we go to the Doctor. I took my computer literally to the Computer Doctor of Huntsville and they found all the issue and had me up and running the next day. I appreciate your support.
McKinley