Today is the first day of the year and my first blog for 2024.
While many are working on their New Year resolutions, I’m working on maintaining a legacy for others to follow as it relates to adding value to others.
This past week, I took some time looking inward and was inspired by the legacy of others in my life who I followed as role models.
The question today is, what legacy are you working on?
I’m aware this might be an easy question to answer for some, but it requires more thought for others.
For several years, without placing a number, I have tried my best and continue maximizing my time for self-development and adding value to others.
In doing so, I want to become the best version of myself that I can be.
Every year, I take on different challenges that have stretched me beyond my comfort zone.
However, this is impossible without faith in the Almighty and giving God the praise.
Ironically, today concludes the seven days of the Kwanzaa greetings ending with “Faith” created in 1966, well over 50 years ago.
What a great way to start the week and a new year.
- December 26: “Umoja” — Unity
- December 27: “Kujichagulia” — Self-determination
- December 28: “Ujima” — Collective work and responsibility
- December 29: “Ujamaa” — Cooperative economics
- December 30: “Nia” — Purpose
- December 31: “Kuumba” — Creativity
- January 1: “Imani” — Faith.
Non-African Americans are also welcome to participate in greetings. The traditional greeting for them is “Joyous Kwanzaa.”
I’m thankful for what God has done for me.
I also know it’s important to align myself with the people I can learn from and those who want more out of life.
These people also stretch, search, and seek higher ground in life.
They say, “You become like the top five people you are around the most,” so choose wisely.
I’m constantly aware that sometimes elevation requires separation, which involves prayer.
You should know that not everyone or everything is good for you.
Today, I believe we can start the year 2024 correctly by saying thank you for how far we have come in life.
Maybe it’s being thankful for the clothes we wear or the food we eat.
Maybe, some have taken our health for granted as we wake up each morning without aches and pains.
Maybe we can see a doctor, dentist, or any other medical professional of our choice to assist in improving our quality of life.
Maybe it’s the relationships we cherish when people enter and exit our lives for a season.
Maybe it’s our homes and the electric bills we can afford all year.
Maybe it’s the goals we set for ourselves and the ability to remain laser-focused despite all the distractions life brings us.
In any case, I must say thank you and give my God the Glory.
Regardless of the religion you and I are practicing, we can’t do it alone.
Each one of us is constantly facing life challenges and must figure out how to deal with each situation that happens in our lives.
One of my favorite books is “The Peak to Peek Principle” by the late Robert Harold Schuler. Many remember this American Christian televangelist, pastor, motivational speaker, and author for his five decades of television, the “Hour of Power.”
Ironically, his grandson, Bobby Schuller, carries on the legacy of the Hour of Power, which has been airing for over fifty years.
What a great accomplishment! With his wife’s help, Bobby Schuller lived out the legacy in real-time.
I say this because Robert Harold Schuler asks a question about the Peak to Peek Principle. “Are you really satisfied with your life as it is today? If you are, you’re in trouble. For to be totally content is to have no unfulfilled dreams. And when you stop dreaming you start dying.”
One of my dreams I accomplished in 2023 was becoming a “Distinguished Toastmaster” (DTM) in August 2023, which was my capstone event of the year.
However, those who are Toastmasters know that nothing is easy, and we must work to achieve the honor bestowed as a DTM.
As mentioned previously, we can’t do it alone, regardless of the religion you and I are practicing. I relied on several people to assist me in my DTM project, and I wrote a thank you note to each of the five people towards this dream.
This is only one example of a dream that took several years to accomplish.
I’m aware that with God, all things are possible. When my mother died in late December 2016, I received her “Possibility Thinkers Bible” by Robert H. Schuller and Paul David Dunn.
This is another part of my legacy that I take into 2024.
As you prepare for the challenges in 2024, take some time and reflect on your accomplishments in 2023.
I recommend you start mapping out what you want to accomplish in 2024.
I’m sure many remember the parable of the mustard seed and the faith to move mountains.
Each of us, myself included, has moved mountains and overcome various obstacles in achieving our goals.
Let the journey begin as you start another chapter of your life in 2024!
As I exit my home’s front door, I have a plaque on my wall that says, “Don’t pray for life to be easy, but pray for yourself to be strong.”
What will your legacy be?
“You are not defined by what you do, but who you are. Be the change. Start changing your life today so that you are your legacy.”-Betsy Harvey
I pray that in 2024, you will continue to dream, move mountains, keep the faith, and create a legacy for others to follow!
Happy New Year and Be Well!
McKinley,
Happy New Year to you and your family. What a great message you have to start 2024. Inspirational
Scott,
Thank you for support to this blog and I look forward to serving you in 2024!
Happy New Year to you and your family!
McKinley
Great words from a great man! May God bless you beyond anything you could imagine in 2024!
Clyde,
Happy New Year and I’m honored by your words!
CM
Excellent, well thought out and well written document.
Hugh,
I’m honored to receive such comments and your support.
McKinley
Excellent, well thought out and well written document.
Hugh,
I’m honored to receive such comments and your support.
McKinley
To my nephew, you are a great DTM. Thanks for the up lifting words to start the Net Year. God Bless
Yvonne,
Thank you for your support and encouragement.
McKinley
What is my legacy? Frankly, I’m not sure. To me, my legacy (the recognitions of my efforts) will depend on the value and attribution others will give to my earthly efforts. This begs the question, who will remember me…and why should anyone remember me?
As you know, I’m retired from the Army; I’m rather enterprising; and now I am a professional school counselor- in short, I’m in the business of service to others. Occasionally, I have the privilege of being flattered by people who feel I was instrumental in some way. Just today, I was chatting with a young man who was one of my most memorable privates. This one, was constantly looking for ways to outsmart me (Dah ‘Old Fox), and constantly found ways to be defiant or just get out of his share of duties. No surprise here. One day, he showed up to formation with yet another profile outlining what he could not do. I kept my cool and checked for any new limitations. I then took over PT formation, had all profiles fallout to the rear of formation (only one); extended the platoon and just before the first exercise, gave the about-face command and had the whole platoon face the infamous private. He watched from a parade-rest position while the rest of us did our push-ups, sit-ups, and what-nots in front of him. He remained in this position until the troops got back from their short run. After this, I had no issues with formations, outbursts, or abuse of any kind. Today, he truly feels remorse for being obnoxious and doesn’t fail to express how grateful he is for the leadership, patience, and guidance I provided him even at his worst.
I believe that legacies come in all shapes and sizes. Some legacies are written in books while others are told around campfires; in either case, legacies are all inspiring. Like you, I have lots of influential episodes across the span of my life but awhile back…I had a vexing AHA-moment that changed my outlook. Ecclesiastes 2:11 ‘Yet when I surveyed all that my hands had done and what I had toiled to achieve, everything was meaningless, a chasing after the wind; nothing was gained under the sun”. Well…I was stupefied! Downright pist! What do you mean I’m wasting my time…and why will someone else enjoy my fruits of labor???? After the hooping-n-hollering was done, I came to terms and decided to go back to being just as crafty as before. I resolved to be more intentional; make sustainable decisions; and be of service to self and others without getting in God’s way. Perhaps that’s my true legacy…let God be God and do what I can at my earthly level.
Thank you for taking time to read my comments 🙂
Always Respectfully,
F.Sanchez-Jones
Frances,
What an honor to receive your insight. I believe that you are being modest by not saying you have a legacy. From everything I read and know about you, there is plenty to choose from between a Solider and professional School Counselor. The school system and the children need your insight and your faith. If I could offer you two things to do is take a moment and reflect on how far you have been in your life and the value, you have provided to others. Theodore Roosevelt say’s “People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care. I see that you care!
McKinley
Thank you my Friend! I promise you… I really have a hard time with the spot light ;). But I’ll watch you and will support you and your efforts all the way.
Rock-on CM!
Frances,
You are very welcome, and I appreciate you contributing to my blog. Because you and I have known each other well for over 30 plus years it’s a blessing to call you my friend.
CM